Today I listened to a podcast specifically entitled "An Intro into the Sociology of Survivor with David Lay."
David Lay is a Criminology and Sociology professor at Mississippi State University. In the podcast, he really broke down how big a role perception plays in any given season of Survivor by drawing parallels of how perception plays a role in real life.
David Lay referenced a great philosopher who one of the best Survivor players talked about when he played the game. This philosopher was Charles Horton Cooley. Charles Horton Cooley famously stated "I am who I think you think I am."
I decided to look up Charles Horton Cooley and have found some really interesting things.
Cooley proposed "the looking glass self" concept. This basically states how our identity, our personal self, only evolves out of other people's perception of us and how we interpret those perceptions.There are 3 components to the looking-glass self. These are:
- We imagine how we must appear to others.
- We imagine and react to what we feel their judgment of that appearance must be.
- We develop our self through the judgments of others.
So, for example:
I wake up, get dressed, and brush my hair. Because I have done everything I need to do in order to be "acceptable" I believe in my mind that I should look fine. However, when I approach a mirror and see that I missed a button on my shirt, I in turn button that shirt. My buttoning of the shirt was my response to the mirror's perception of my appearance.
This concept to me has actually changed my stance on the game a tiny bit, but not very much (more so, it has modified).
I have always taken the stance that "perception is reality." Because even if I play the most cutthroat game in the history of Survivor, if other people don't think that I have played the most cutthroat game ever then they won't award me the million dollars.
I have changed that perception. I now believe there are two realities. There's a personal reality and other people's realities.
-Your reality is your perception of other people's perception (which in turn influences your game and how you adjust/make moves accordingly)
-Other people's realities are the perception they have of your moves and attitude.
Both of these realities feed off each other and are what shapes either a winning or losing game.